How to Save a Relationship That's Falling Apart – It's Not Easy But It's Not Impossible Either

Published: 19th February 2010
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Anyone who has been through a break up or used to be on the verge of breaking up knows that saving a relationship is not easy. This is worsened by the fact that we were never though how to deal with a relationship break up in school. In fact, this subject is even considered a taboo when we were in school .

Fortunately, saving a relationship that's falling apart is not impossible either. We have all heard of lovers getting back together with each other in the most unbelivable situation.

Here are a few tips that you may find useful in saving your relationship.

If you have not broken up yet but feel that the inevitable is going to happen soon, then you will want to find a way to stop it. The first thing to do is to sit down and try to figure out what went wrong.

Do not just look at the surface. Sometimes, there are certain deeper issues that you need to deal with. For example, if you are a man whose girlfriend is always arguing with you over the small stuff, you must understand this.

Most likely, your girlfriend is not really upset about the small stuff. Instead, she may be upset that you have been neglecting her in favor of your work. Perhaps you have been spending too much time at work? Maybe it is time to cut down your working time if possible?

If both of you are married couples, then it is probably time to talk to each other and express your concern. Communication is essential for a great relationship. This is especially important if a lot of things is at stake. For example, if both of you already have children, then a separation or divorce shouldn't be the solution. It should only be the very last resort.

You are encouraged to do whatever you can to save your marriage even if you are the only one trying. Of course, if you have an abusive spouse that will threaten the safety of both you and your children, then a divorce may be something you have to consider.

Alternatively, ff you are trying to save your marriage, marriage counseling may be the solution to save your relationship.
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